When Your Rice Bowl Becomes Your Business Mentor
- Elly Nam
- Mar 16
- 3 min read
Updated: Mar 23

You know those moments when you're eating lunch alone at your desk, scrolling through emails, and suddenly remember your mom's voice saying, "밥은 천천히 먹어!" (eat your rice slowly!)? Yeah, that happened to me yesterday. It got me thinking about how the lessons from Korean dining culture have surprisingly shaped my approach to running my business.
The Art of Attention
Remember how every Korean table setting has its own rhythm? Rice here, soup there, everything in its perfect place? That's exactly how I approach my client work now. Just like how my grandmother would never dream of serving soup in a flat dish (the horror!), I've learned that every business decision needs its proper container.
Here's what my Korean table taught me about business:
The Main Dish Principle Just like how rice (밥) is the star of every Korean meal, every business needs its core offering. But here's the thing – even the most perfectly cooked rice needs its banchan companions. In business terms? Your main service might be brilliant, but it's the small additions that keep clients coming back for more.

My Business Banchan Strategy:
Core service (the rice) - Strategic consulting
Supporting offers (the banchan) - Brand workshops, marketing guides
Special touches (the surprise dishes) - Personalized follow-ups
The Power of Empty Space
You know that intentional space between dishes on a Korean table? My grandmother called it '여백' (yeobaek). Took me years to understand that sometimes, what you don't put on the table is just as important as what you do. In business, this translated into one of my biggest lessons: the power of saying no.
Real Talk: Finding Your Rhythm
Just like how every Korean household has their own kimchi recipe, every business has its unique flavor. Here's how I maintain mine:
Morning strategy sessions (like morning rice - non-negotiable)
Mid-day reflection breaks (think of it as the banchan prep of business)
Evening wrap-ups (cleaning the dishes of the day's work)
The "Aha!" Business Moments
Remember the first time you learned why soup goes on the right? That same kind of enlightenment hits when you're running a business. For me, it was realizing that just like Korean food is meant to be shared, business growth happens better in community.
Making It Work in Modern Times
How I keep my business "table" balanced:
Prep work on Sundays (just like banchan prep)
Regular client check-ins (like tasting the soup while cooking)
Building relationships slowly (like fermenting kimchi - you can't rush perfection)
My Favorite Business Setting Hack
Want to know my secret for maintaining sanity while running a business? I use the same three-color rule from Korean table setting in my work planning. Each week needs:
Revenue-generating activities (the rice)
Relationship-building moments (the kimchi)
Creative projects (the colorful banchan)

The Heart of It All
Just like how a proper Korean meal brings people together, good business is about creating connections. Every time I sit down with a new client, I think about how my grandmother would carefully arrange every dish before anyone sat down to eat. It wasn't just about the food – it was about creating an experience.
Sometimes I catch myself arranging my desktop icons with the same care my mom used to arrange banchan dishes. And you know what? Maybe that's exactly what running a heart-centered business is all about – bringing those timeless principles of care, attention, and harmony into everything we do.
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